Tom Dufty

Passed away on 19 March 2024, aged 82 years.

Donations for St Peter & St James Hospice 

Page Closes on 09 May 2024

St Peter & St James Hospice

TOTAL DONATION

£1,840.00 + £352.78 Gift Aid

Phil Smith

Farewell Tom and thank you for your friendship. I will never forget your welcoming smile and words when Lyn and I arrived in Ditchling 13 years ago and for all the challenges, fun and laughter we shared in preparing the Neighbourhood Plan and performing with the Ditchling Singers. I will miss you and will forever be grateful for having known you.

01/05/2024
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Lynn and Kathy Mercer

So sad to hear of Tom's passing. It was a privilege and pleasure to have known and worked with him for many years in Wales and later in London. He will be greatly missed. Our condolences to his family.

29/04/2024
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Ditchling Players

A wonderful Chairman, Director and all rounf support. Greatly missed.

22/04/2024
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James Fischer

A wonderful colleague and friend who will be greatly missed in so many ways.

22/04/2024
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Sarah Colclough

In memory of a very fine man.

20/04/2024
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Gilda and Antonia

The beautiful service for Tom said it all. Couldn't have wished for a better friend and godfather.

19/04/2024
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Maggie and Norman Armstrong

We shall miss your conviviality, wit and wisdom. Rest in peace dear friend.

18/04/2024
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Ralph and Eileen

In memory of Tom, a friend for over 40 years.

16/04/2024
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Stuart and Roma Leon

Godspeed Tom, we will miss you

15/04/2024
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Ditchling History Project

We will all miss you Tom, your knowledge, your enthusiasm for anything Ditchling and your wisdom. We will remember to honour your wish to record the history of now as well as the past

15/04/2024
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Chris and Anna Burgess

You blessed our lives by your presence Tom. Thank you for being part of it. We will miss you.

15/04/2024
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Carolyn and Robin

Dear Pauline and family The service for Tom was very moving and we shall miss him very much love from us both

14/04/2024
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Dick Marshall

Dear Tom You will be sadly missed but not forgotten. Words fail me. Dick

14/04/2024
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Alec & Sue

We will always remember you.

13/04/2024
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Wendy Coombes

Thank you Tom for your friendship over so many years.

12/04/2024
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John and Denie Lord

So many good memories as a friend for many years

11/04/2024
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Jane Skelton

It doesn't seem quite real that you're not around. A grest friend and how will we cope on Halloween without you? Love Jane, Primrose, Thea and Henry xx

10/04/2024
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David McGill

You will always be in my thoughts, Tom. A great work colleague and a better friend

10/04/2024
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Phil Dufty

Love you, dad

10/04/2024
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Joe and Sue Chatt

In memory of Tom. A truly inspirational friend.

10/04/2024
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Ros

Dad, it is clear you are an inspiration to everyone and a role model for many. Of course you will be truly missed, especially by me and the boys. Love you forever. R xx

09/04/2024
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Anonymous

09/04/2024
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Eva Coleman

Dear Tom, So hard to take in that you are no longer with us. You will be much missed. New year's eve just won't be the same without you. Xx

09/04/2024
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John Paul Jacques

08/04/2024
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Colin Strachan

A friend for 40 years and much loved member of the DHP and the village of Ditchling at large

07/04/2024
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Janet and David

We had so many good times together Tom and will miss you very much

07/04/2024
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Kingsley Raffael

There is no doubts that I and everyone that knew you; will miss you deeply! I was lucky enough to have you as an uncle and Godfather and were and will remain my greatest role model. Even in my most "challenging" years you NEVER judged and only ever offered love and support unconditionally. I know that right now you will be sitting next to my Mum; filling her in on all the family news with a glass of red wine! Cheers Tom! All our love Kingsley & Pip xx

05/04/2024
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James Savage

Tom was my godfather for nearly 55 years. It is amazing that we stayed in touch and communicated regularly over such a long time. There were always great stories to share and I appreciated the words of advice from the old and wise.

05/04/2024
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Alan Rowland

Tom was a wonderful friend and work colleague for over fifty years. You are sadly missed.

05/04/2024
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Anonymous

30/03/2024
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Lorna & Graeme Hemsley

29/03/2024
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Derek and Quin Minor

It has been wonderful to know you,Tom. We shall miss you

29/03/2024
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Patricia Rykiel

As Tom's IT person/computer trainer, I was lucky to be in such commanding company. I hope he enjoyed the IT time as much as I did. He was thoughtful, funny, and taught me a thing or two. His courage at the end was a reminder of his ever-present strength of character. Tom, you will be missed.

28/03/2024
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Barbara Dollings

In memory of an old friend Tom

27/03/2024
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Richard Dufty

We will miss you so much Dad. You were a great dad and a brilliant Grandpa. It feels surreal that you are no longer here. Can't quite believe it.

26/03/2024
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Ian and Anne Howell

In memory of a good friend for almost 50 years

26/03/2024
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John Johnston

A good friend indeed

26/03/2024
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Douglas and Margaret Gordon

In loving memory of our dear friend Tom

26/03/2024
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Sebastian Pedley

24/03/2024
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Funeral Service

Date & Time: Tuesday 09 Apr 2024 at 1:00 PM

Location: St Margaret's Church, Church Lane, Ditchling, East Sussex BN6 8TB

Bowley Funeral Service

01273 841 711
funerals@bowleyfuneralservice.co.uk